I am glad and thankful that Brunei Darussalam has formed Dharar Syari’e, helps victims whom are abused in whatsoever level of violence it may be (i.e. emotionally, mentally or physically).
As for my case, the 423 days of abusive relationship that I have finally gotten out from is the biggest achievement in my very own personal life; although Dharar Syari’e was not there yet.
So ladies, if you’re being mistreated with harassment or humiliation by your man, do not hesitate to lodge your report to the authority immediately. Bear in mind, never ever try to do something stupid but by doing the right thing when those emotionally, mentally or worse, physically abuses occurred to you.
From the period of February 2009 until January - March 2010 was a struggle for me. Gratefully, being strong and pulling up myself together as how I should be has become my pride as a valuable person refusing depression to conquer my spirit to stand tall.
Human spirit cannot be broken, so stand your ground with whatever you believe in.
Ok, my 2010 my 2010 my 2010….
1. April was when I finally decided to love myself as I have fought my own battle ON MY OWN, trying to fight for an unworthy traitor that shattered the dreams of love and almost ruining my life into pieces. He’s forgiven but I will never ever forget. Deuces!
2. Tennis, Futsal, Badminton, Table Tennis, Swimming, Archery are my ongoing endorphin sporty activities that I’m enjoying so far, Surfing is one of the activities too, and I’m also taking a once a week dance class with the intention of the preparation for the future to dance for my man’s eyes only ; )
3. I’ve overcome my fears: deep water, the waves, mirror in my bedroom, and park my car in the basement (at my work place). Unfortunately, I’m still afraid of the dark and h.a.n.t.u… :p
4. Aside from the Masehi date of my birthday, May, rupanya on the 29 May 2010, my Dad has a new born baby girl, so she’s my little sister lah..Actually, me and Dd found it out in June. Her name is Nurin Nabilah. My Dad calls her Baby. I can hardly wait for her to grow up and imma take her out shopping and we’ll surely have a lot of girlie fun times together! ;)
5. Ramadhan 1431H was so remarkably fun! Sungkai with friends, Sahur with friends and the most unforgettable moment was Terawih with friends (especially with Sasya & Ady) that we went to different mosques together.
6. One of the greatest parts about my Syawal was my Duit Raya which was surprisingly banyak-er than the previous year! Rezeki Allah…hehe
7. Sometime in September, I’ve came up with my ghetto name, Sara Jane, coz I like my dearest girlfriend’s name, Sara. Hehe! Jangan jadi too serious in life…
8. My colleagues and I supported the Breast Cancer Awareness last October.
9. I have new cuddly static companion in my room (Puddycat & Stewie G).
Stewie G. Puddycat
10. I was sent to Jakarta last November with my fellow colleagues for work and I love Jakarta so much and wish to go there again for a vacation. I miss Jakarta, and I love shopping alone in Singapore, i miss that... (And then stranded lagi, iatah siuk ;p ). 
11. Besides spending times with friends, my close friends and I have been enjoying the DVD nights and sleepovers at my place. For almost every weekends sudah : )
12. I stayed overnight in the woods during RBTS Summer Camp last December. RBTS Summer Camp was a one heck of fun experience. Especially karaoke till 2am, di hutan..hehe. Well, actually it was at Berakas Recreational Beach/Camping Area…there are chalets, no hantu, iatah I had no fear that I stayed overnight with the others who stayed.
Basically I managed to balance the time of my life between my careerhood, my family, my friends and most importantly, myself.
Although I’m a workaholic during the weekdays, but I always enjoy coffee-after-work and movies with my friends either after work or during the weekends too.
Nonetheless, im keepin' up the funner, joyous and excruciating moments revolving around me. I've been loving for even more especially on spending time with beloved friends (I love you all boys & girls!).
Love and support from all of my friends and family are the fundamental to my bliss that helped me to move on very well. Alhamdulillah so very much for that. ; )
My most vital 2010 agenda is Sasya Ismail. She means the world to me. She's my true best-friend that Allah sent to me. :')
Bliss to me is being at home, with home-cooked meal, the TV, the books, and then go out spending my times with friends and share laughter and go home happy. : )
A full and buzy life is a mixed blessing actually. The word Happy-Go-Lucky is what every one of us wants to adapt in life as it plays an important part in our daily life.
Wanna know my secret? ; ) In order to collect and store good feelings and ever since I’ve chosen to follow my bliss, I‘ve started listing a Happiness List (either in written or in my mind), for example listing out of what happened today which makes me feel good about. And then, whenever I need a boost, I’d read through the list and enjoy my good feelings all over again. Believe me, it works. Especially realizing the exhilaration of how eminent Allah’s kuasa is.
I had the greatest end of 2010 and the beginning of 2011! *wink-wink to my beloved best-friends, coz you guys know what I mean..wink-wink*
I ain’t gonna look for a man, but I will be found by The Man with great personality who’s gonna guide me and treat me well with honour, respect and love, insyAllah amin
My doa is I’m hoping to settle down in the years to come with love and success. I deserve a better man, I mean a way way way better man for a life partner coz I believe Allah always has a better plan for me.
Till next time ; ) Loves!
*Ehem-Ehem*
This note goes to one of my beloved girlfriends, Azrina, I know you’re reading this, Alhamdulillah and an utmost congratulations to you and your beloved fiancé on your engagement day (02 January 2011).
I wanna get my own rollerblades
